LOL, so many royalties out there still, she could try Jordan. The crown prince is a lot younger than his European counterparts. Doubt she'll have much luck there. Or she could go searching for pretenders (Families that used to have thrones)... She won't be a "queen", just consort to a pretender.

Your dreams are unrealistic only due to the poor comprehension of others. They can't fathom your dream because they're measuring you by their standards. You're not them. The only thing that will make your dream unrealistic, is your lack of dedication to it. Don't waver, regret is a hard thing to get over.